The Real Chic Life

On Sunday I received a wrapped bouquet of roses for Mother’s Day and instead of just snipping off the ends and plopping them in a vase like I usually do, I took my time with cutting and arranging each stem. I really loved the result. This attempt was inspired by some of the amazing floral content creators I’ve seen recently, like Kyla Malkani and Maurice Harris (who’s hilarious btw). Their creations are so chic, and now I’m eager to do more. This got me thinking about flowers in general, and how they can be powerful tools of self-expression and even cornerstones of your personal brand. Think of Frida Kahlo and her signature roses and bougainvillea, Billie Holiday and her signature gardenia, or Beyonce’s gorgeous monochrome bouquets that she sends to many of her music industry peers. Whether you’re arranging a simple bouquet for your home, sending your signature flower to friends and family, or wearing a signature floral scent, the right bloom can say so much about who you are. In today’s post, we’re diving into three things: how to pick a signature flower based on your personality (it doesn’t have to be your birth month flower unless you love it of course), beginner-friendly tips for flower arranging, and creative ways to weave that flower into your lifestyle and brand.

1. How to Choose Your Signature Flower Based on Personality

Your signature flower should feel like an extension of you — something that resonates with your mood, aesthetic, and even your values. Here’s a simple guide to help you decide:

Romantic & Sentimental: Peony

You’re a nostalgic soul who values beauty, comfort, and heartfelt moments. Peonies, with their lush layers and old-world charm, are perfect for you.

Elegant & Classic: Rose

Timeless, versatile, and deeply symbolic, roses are ideal if you love sophistication with just a touch of drama.

Free-Spirited & Creative: Wildflower or Poppy

You dance to your own rhythm and value self-expression. Go for wildflowers or bright poppies — carefree and full of personality.

Minimalist & Calm: Calla Lily or Orchid

Sleek lines, gentle presence, and understated beauty — these flowers suit those who gravitate toward quiet luxury and clean design.

Bold & Magnetic: Sunflower or Dahlia

If you’re vibrant, warm, and a little extra (in the best way), sunflowers or dahlias will reflect your confident, luminous energy.

Introspective & Dreamy: Lavender or Wisteria

You’re thoughtful, intuitive, and in love with life’s softer side. These blooms offer a sense of calm and timeless mystery.

Take a walk through a flower market or garden and notice what you’re drawn to — your signature flower might find you.

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2. A Beginner’s Guide to Flower Arranging

Once you’ve found your flower, it’s time to bring it to life in your home. Here’s how to create a balanced, beautiful arrangement — no florist skills required.

Step 1: Gather Your Tools

• Fresh flowers (include your signature bloom!)
• Filler greens (eucalyptus, ferns, ruscus)
• Floral shears or sharp scissors
• A clean vase or pitcher
• Flower food or a DIY version

Step 2: Prep the Flowers

• Remove leaves from the bottom half of each stem.
• Cut stems at a 45-degree angle under water (this helps them drink up).
• Let them hydrate for 30 minutes before arranging.

Step 3: Start with Structure

Begin with your greenery to create a base. Let it crisscross and support the flowers to come.

Step 4: Add Focal Flowers

Insert your signature flower first — this is the star. Odd numbers (3, 5, 7) look more natural.

Step 5: Add Supporting Blooms

These are smaller flowers that add texture and color. Think ranunculus, spray roses, or lisianthus.

Step 6: Finish with Fillers

Add airy fillers like baby’s breath or waxflower to soften any gaps.

Step 7: Step Back and Adjust

Look at it from all angles, fluff where needed, and don’t be afraid to break the rules — if it feels right, it is right.

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3. Incorporating Your Signature Flower into Your Brand and Lifestyle

Your signature flower isn’t just for vases — it’s a design motif that can bring consistency and personality to your everyday style.

Home Decor

Use your flower as inspiration for art prints, wallpaper, throw pillows, or even the scent of a candle.

Incorporate real or dried versions of the flower on your dining table, bedside, or entryway for a daily dose of joy.

Fragrance & Beauty

Choose perfumes or body oils with floral notes that match your signature bloom.

Thoughtful Gifting

Start sending your flower to others. It’s a thoughtful gesture with a personal twist—equal parts stylish and sentimental. You’re not just giving blooms; you’re giving a piece of your signature.

This works beautifully for:

• Birthdays (they’ll always remember it was you who sent the dahlias)

• Thank you gifts (your floral signature adds meaning)

• Celebrations and milestones (your flower becomes part of their joy)

• Random Wednesdays (because why not?)

Over time, people will start to associate that bloom with you. And honestly? That’s the mark of true style—when something as simple as a flower becomes unmistakably yours.

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Choosing a signature flower is more than a style decision — it’s a little act of self-celebration. So take your time, let your instincts guide you, and once you find your bloom, let it blossom in every corner of your life.

Do you have a signature flower? If not which one would you choose based on our list of matches for your personality?

Xo,

Courtney