The Real Chic Life

I’m the first to admit that the world around us feels chaotic right now. But thriving personally in 2025 is about more than whether you choose to keep up with the outside noise or try to turn down the volume. I’ve always been a firm believer that when things get challenging it’s important to get to work. But sometimes that work starts on the inside- by taking steps toward controlling the things you can. Thriving in 2025 isn’t about fixing everything outside of your sphere of control, it’s about aligning your life with your values, passions, and well-being so that you can focus on the things you can control and expand your sphere of influence from there.

Here’s how you can cultivate a fulfilling and meaningful year for yourself (and others) starting right now:

1. Foster Meaningful Connections

Strong relationships are the cornerstone of a happy life. This year, focus on deepening your bonds with family, friends, and your community.

Schedule regular check-ins with loved ones, whether in person or virtually. I know we all dreaded ZOOM calls a few years ago, but I think we’ve hit our stride now in determining when and how they work best for us. Virtual check ins can be a heartfelt win. 

While I have always been a fan of courageous conversations, this year I’m taking care of myself by spending more time with people who share the same values, morals, and interests as me. If you’re interested in doing that too- join a group or club aligned with your interests to meet like-minded people. If you’re still using social media, curate your experience by following more people who align with your values and/or inspire you.

 2. Set Intentional Goals

It’s one thing to have dreams but it’s another thing to have intentional goals for yourself. The kind of goals you can check off in your planner- even if you write them there after you’ve completed them (I can’t be the only one who loves to tick a box). But regardless of when and where you write them down, thriving is about pursuing goals that align with your values and passions. Set objectives that excite and challenge you, and don’t be afraid to go big.

Use the SMART goal framework (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound) to create actionable plans. You can learn more about that here. 

Remember to celebrate Wins: Reward yourself for achieving milestones, no matter how small. This is one of my favorite things to do. A little extrinsic motivation goes a long way too. 

3. Continue Learning and Growing

Lifelong learning is a hallmark of thriving individuals. Whether it’s picking up a new skill, reading more books, or exploring creative pursuits, commit to growth in 2025.

Dedicate 30 minutes daily to personal development like reading, watching a TED Talk, or practicing a hobby. I always start my day with a chapter or two of whichever book I’m currently reading, alongside my morning coffee. This feels like a treat but I’m also learning. 

Explore platforms like Skillshare or Coursera for affordable courses. I personally enjoy classes through Masterclass, but I’ve also taken writing classes in person and virtually at our local writing studio. I’d love to add an Improv class to my list this year.

4. Create Boundaries for Balance

Balance is key to thriving personally. In a world that’s always “on,” setting boundaries helps protect your time and energy. This has always been an area I struggle with. It’s not uncommon to want to say yes but this year I’ve committed to saying yes to myself, which means I’ll have to say more no’s to the things I can’t or don’t really want to do.

Establish clear work-life boundaries, such as turning off notifications after a certain time. I don’t have any notifications set around social media or email though I use both often. This gives me more control over how I spend my time online. 

Schedule downtime just as you would any other priority. I schedule my morning reads, my workouts, and even my television time. They aren’t set in stone but I know (just about) when they’re going to happen each day. And while my downtime might not seem like downtime- (working out for instance) it works for me. Anytime I’m doing something I enjoy that isn’t directly related to work or chores it falls into that category. Feel free to create your own. 

5. Align with Your Purpose

Thriving isn’t about being busy; it’s about being intentional. Reflect on what truly matters to you and align your actions with your purpose. It’s easy to get on the hamster wheel but it’s important to take a step back and ask yourself, “What makes me feel alive? What impact do I want to have?”

Incorporate activities that align with your purpose into your daily life.

6. Embrace Joy and Fun

Life isn’t just about achieving—it’s about enjoying the journey. Make time for things that light you up and bring happiness into your daily routine. My father was highly motivated, successful, and laser focused in many areas, but he always made time to enjoy life and share that joy with others. Be sure to make time for hobbies, travel, or simple pleasures like cooking or spending time outdoors. Because of my dad, I had a pretty exciting childhood filled with all of the above and it’s inspired me to always try new things. Try something new every month to keep life exciting!

Thriving personally in 2025 is about creating a life that feels fulfilling, balanced, and aligned with your true self. By focusing on self-care, meaningful connections, and personal growth, you can make this year one of your best yet.

What steps will you take to thrive in 2025? Leave your reply in the comments, it might inspire others too!

Until next post,

Xo Tonya Parker