If your schedule is anything like mine, you have quite a few holiday parties on the calendar. This year, I’ve been invited to several White Elephant gift exchanges, which have left me feeling a little more stressed about choosing a gift than I’d like to admit. Now I realize that these exchanges are meant to be playful, surprising, and just a little mischievous, not stress-inducing—but finding a gift that’s clever and universally appealing? That’s where things get tricky. 

So, I decided to stop scrolling and do a little research for me, and for you. If you’ve been feeling like I have, fear not—this curated list brings together crowd-pleasers that spark joy, laughter, and maybe a tiny bit of friendly competition. 

Whether you’re exchanging with coworkers, family, or your most stylish friends, these gifts will be the ones everyone wishes they’d stolen.

1. A Chic, Universal Mug Everyone Wants

A mug is simple—but make it chic. Think minimalist stoneware, or hand-thrown pottery. Add a pack of luxe hot chocolate or a tiny tin of tea for a gift that feels thoughtful, not basic.

We all drink something, and everyone loves a pretty mug.

2. Gourmet Snack Sampler

Think: artisan popcorn, fancy chocolates, small-batch pretzels, or a “bougie snack box” theme.

It’s consumable, delightful, and doesn’t add clutter—always a win.

Add a cute note: “For the person who’s always hungry.”

3. A Cozy Throw Blanket

A neutral, soft, cable-knit throw is the kind of gift that gets aggressively stolen in a White Elephant. And it works for every style and every home. Just choose cream, camel, or charcoal to keep it timeless.

4. The Mini Waffle Maker

This one is a cult favorite for a reason. Tiny, cute, instantly fun, and under $20. Perfect for teens, adults, and breakfast lovers alike.

Pair it with a small bottle of maple syrup or gourmet pancake mix.

5. “Bougie Candle” Moment

A luxe candle in a subtle, sophisticated scent (think sandalwood, amber, or cashmere) always goes fast. No neon holiday candles, please—let’s keep it elevated.

We’re huge candle fans over at The Real Chic Life. Check out Courtney’s Candles for a Warm and Chic Season post. 

Even a mini luxe candle paired with a box of decorative matchsticks like these would be very chic. 

6. Funny Kitchen Towels

A stylish tea towel with a witty or snarky line is the perfect mix of silly and useful.

Think: This house runs on coffee,” or “Alexa, do the dishes.”

It’s safe, funny, and always gets laughs.

7. Desk or Office Humor Gift

A mini Zen garden, a tiny desk vacuum, a “daily affirmation” flip book—anything that brings a smile during long workdays.

This is perfect for coworkers, teachers, or anyone with a home office.

8. A Cute Card Game

Choose something easy to learn that works for all ages—like Heads Up, Charades, or a travel-size trivia game.

Also works for Instant post-exchange entertainment.

9. Bougie Hand Soap Duo

A pretty hand soap + lotion combo in a chic scent (citrus, bergamot, lavender) feels unexpectedly luxurious. It’s practical and pretty.

10. A “Movie Night In” Kit

Keep it nostalgic and sweet:

• popcorn
• a couple of classic candies
• a cute popcorn bowl

It hits everyone’s sentimental side.

Final Tips

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• Stay at or just under the limit, but choose items that feel well-made.
  
• Aim for universal appeal with a touch of personality.
  
• Skip overly personal items (no lotions with glitter or ultra-specific gag gifts).
  
• Presentation matters—a chic gift bag elevates even simple gifts.
  

With the right gift, the White Elephant game becomes less about sticking to the budget and more about sparking fun, laughter, and a little joyful chaos. Because gifting should be fun—not frantic.

x Tonya