The Real Chic Life

I’ve loved French culture ever since my first college French course back in 2007. At the time I was really into French cinema and novels. Since then my love for French fashion and the French girl (woman) aesthetic has really grown. I’ve experimented with different styles over the years, but I’ve settled into a personal style that aspires to fit these three keywords– romantic, classic and French. The French girl aesthetic is synonymous with effortless elegance, understated beauty, and a certain je ne sais quoi that makes it timelessly chic. It’s less about following trends (although there’s nothing wrong with a good trend every now and then) and more about curating a refined, yet relaxed, personal style. If you’ve ever admired the way French women seem to look put-together without trying too hard, here’s my take on how to achieve the same results in your wardrobe, beauty routine, and lifestyle.

1. Build a Chic, Minimalist Wardrobe

The foundation of the French girl aesthetic is a curated, high-quality wardrobe filled with timeless pieces. Think classic silhouettes, neutral tones, and effortless layering. Here are a few essentials:

• Tailored Blazer – Instantly elevates any outfit, whether paired with jeans or a dress.

• Striped Breton Shirt – The ultimate Parisian staple that never goes out of style.

• High-Waisted Jeans – A well-fitted pair in a straight or slightly relaxed cut is a must.

• Silky Blouse – Feminine yet understated, perfect for dressing up or down.

• Little Black Dress (LBD) – The French girl’s go-to for any occasion.

• Ballet Flats & Loafers – Classic footwear choices that are both stylish and practical.

• Trench Coat – A wardrobe essential for transitional seasons.

The Key: Quality Over Quantity

Instead of a closet filled with fast fashion, focus on investing in well-made, versatile pieces. French women prioritize fit, fabric, and timelessness over excessive variety.

2. Embrace the “No-Makeup” Makeup Look

French beauty is all about looking naturally radiant, with a focus on glowing skin and subtle enhancements. Here’s how to achieve it:

• Skincare First – A simple but effective routine featuring a gentle cleanser, hydrating serum, and a moisturizer.

• Minimal Base – Ditch the heavy foundation in favor of a foundation stick like this one from Merit Beauty, a light BB cream or just a touch of concealer.

• Soft, Fluffy Brows – Keep them natural and slightly undone for an effortless touch. If your brows are very sparse fill them in with a pencil or brow gel like this one from Thrive Cosmetics.

• Mascara & Smudged Liner – A touch of mascara and softly smudged eyeliner add just the right amount of definition.

• Lips That Look Lived-In – A red lip is a signature French girl beauty move, but it’s rarely overdone—think lightly blotted or a tinted balm for a just-kissed effect. I love this tinted balm from Ilia Beauty in the shade Heartbeats.

3. Keep Accessories Understated but Thoughtful

French women don’t over-accessorize, but when they do, it’s intentional. A few key pieces:

• Gold Jewelry – Simple gold hoops, delicate rings, and a fine chain necklace.

• Silk Scarves – Tied around the neck, in the hair, or on a handbag for a touch of elegance.

• Classic Handbag – A structured leather tote or crossbody bag.

• Cat-Eye Sunglasses – A signature accessory that adds instant Parisian flair.

5. Cultivate a French-Inspired Lifestyle

The French girl aesthetic isn’t just about fashion—it’s also a way of life. Here are a few ways to embrace it:

• Savor Life’s Simple Pleasures – Enjoying fresh pastries at a café, taking evening strolls, and appreciating small, beautiful moments.

• Confidence Is Key – French women carry themselves with an air of self-assurance and embrace their natural beauty.

• Effortless Elegance – Whether dressing up or down, French girls always exude quiet confidence and grace.

• A Love for Art & Culture – Reading, museum visits, and an appreciation for cinema are all part of the lifestyle.

Adopting the French girl aesthetic isn’t about strict rules—it’s about cultivating an effortless yet refined style that feels uniquely yours. By focusing on quality over quantity, embracing natural beauty, and carrying yourself with quiet confidence, you can channel that timeless Parisian charm in your own way.

Are you a fan of the French aesthetic? What 3 words would you use to describe your personal style? Let me know in the comments!

Xo,

Courtney