The Real Chic Life

Have you read Tonya’s post about thriving in a world that often feels chaotic? Taking the time to romanticize your life is also a powerful way to reconnect with yourself. Romanticizing your life doesn’t mean escaping reality; it’s about finding magic in the mundane and elevating your everyday experiences to cultivate feelings of joy. Here’s how you can do it:

1. Create Meaningful Rituals

Rituals bring intentionality to your day. If your mornings typically feel rushed, set your alarm a little earlier so you have more time for yourself. Brew your morning coffee as if you’re in a quaint Parisian café. Sit near a window where natural light spills in, or step outside to enjoy your coffee on your patio or balcony. Place a small vase with fresh flowers on your table, and let soft music play in the background. In the evening light a scented candle and play music to unwind. I’ve recently found some amazing and free DJ curated playlists on youtube, you can find something for every mood. I’m currently alternating between the Lafco Feu de Bois candle and Cecred Temple Oud (currently sold out but hopefully it will be back soon) for relaxing evenings. Small acts of self-care add richness and mindfulness to your routine.

2. Dress for the Life You Want

Elevate your wardrobe by wearing clothes that make you feel confident and beautiful. Dressing up—even in small ways—can shift your mindset and help you embrace the day. Check out our fashion page if you’d like recommendations. Consider dopamine dressing to curate a wardrobe that literally makes you feel happier. Put on your favorite perfume and jewelry every day to fully channel your main character energy.

3. Savor the Little Things

Take your time to enjoy simple pleasures. Pause to appreciate the smell of fresh flowers, the warmth of sunlight on your skin, or the satisfying crunch of a perfectly toasted baguette. The key is to slow down and fully immerse yourself in the moment.

4. Curate Your Space

Transform your home into a sanctuary. Invest in cozy throws, ambient lighting, and fresh flowers. I’ve always wanted to try a fresh flower subscription from a local farm, but great deals can also be found at farmers markets and grocery stores (Trader Joes is my favorite for bouquets under $20). Add more framed photos that you love or artwork that inspires you. A clutter-free, aesthetically pleasing space will inspire you to live with intention and gratitude.

5. Romanticize the Ordinary

Turn routine activities into special moments. Walk through your favorite neighborhoods in your city and take pictures of beautiful architecture or things you find in nature that interest you. Notice the details—the sound of leaves rustling, the color of the sky at dusk—and let them fill you with gratitude. Set the table beautifully for dinner, even if it’s just for yourself. These small shifts can make the mundane feel extraordinary.

6. Take Yourself on Dates

Think about what makes you happy or curious. Do you love art? Visit a museum or take a painting class. Foodie at heart? Treat yourself to lunch at that cute café you’ve been eyeing. The key is picking something that feels special and just for you.

7. Write Your Story

See your life as a novel, with you as the protagonist. Journaling can help you craft a narrative for your days, celebrating the highs and reframing the lows. Writing down your thoughts allows you to romanticize even the simplest aspects of your life. Reflect on the things that bring you joy. Gratitude shifts your focus and opens your heart to the beauty of life.

By embracing the small, beautiful moments in your day, you can live more intentionally and cultivate feelings of joy that help shift your perspective even when times are hard.

How do you romanticize your life? Share your favorite tips in the comments below!

Xo,

Courtney