The Real Chic Life

We’ve reached the time of year when many of us start to feel a bit burnt out and stressed, and although the holidays offer a lot to look forward to, this season can also bring hectic schedules and additional stressors of its own. Add world events to the mix and many of us may be more in need of a break than usual. Instead of ignoring that feeling and pushing through, we can address it by leaning into slow living for the rest of the year and embracing a cozy lifestyle. There’s nothing more rewarding than creating a life filled with comfort and warmth. Living a cozy life means embracing a lifestyle that feels like a soft, oversized knit sweater on a chilly evening—luxurious, inviting, and undeniably you. Here’s our guide to channeling your inner Cozy Queen and turning every day into a haven of comfort and grace:

Step 1: Create a Cozy Space

Your home is your sanctuary. Start by crafting a space that radiates warmth and relaxation. Layer different textures around your home. Think plush blankets, soft pillows, and chunky knit throws. Layering these items adds depth and a tactile sense of coziness. I love the Quince chunky knit weighted blanket and this faux fur throw that’s under $50 on Amazon. Ditch harsh overhead lights for warm, ambient alternatives like candles, table lamps with dimmers, and string lights. Cozy Queens know that scent is definitely a mood-setter. Invest in candles, essential oils, or diffusers with notes of vanilla, cedarwood, or cinnamon for a warm, inviting aroma. Or lean into the holidays with festive scents. If you’d like to add a luxurious seasonal scent to your space try Lafco Feu de Bois, which smells like a luxe cabin at a winter resort, or Nest Birchwood Pine, which was aptly described by a youtuber as the scent of “a Christmas tree lot outside of a high-end department store”.

Step 2: Master the Art of Loungewear

Invest in luxurious basics. Opt for high-quality loungewear like cashmere sweaters, fleece-lined leggings, or silk pajamas. Naadam makes a luxe assortment of cashmere lounge pieces. Eberjey has washable silk pajamas in various seasonal colors and prints. But you don’t have to splurge on a cozy wardrobe, look for loungewear labeled as “super soft” or fabrics like satin or modal at any retailer. Embrace layering with long cardigans, oversized scarves, and cozy socks to elevate even the simplest outfit. Wearing soft hues like beige, cream, blush, and gray can create an effortless, chic look.

Step 3: Savor Slow Mornings

A cozy life is one where mornings are cherished, not rushed. Start every day with a warm drink: whether it’s a frothy cappuccino, herbal tea, or decadent hot chocolate, enjoy your morning brew in a beautiful mug. Set the mood for the day by playing soft music or nature sounds, opening your curtains to let in natural light, and journaling or meditating to center yourself for the day ahead.

Step 4: Indulge in Comfort Food

A cozy life includes food that warms the soul. Try cooking or baking more recipes at home. Homemade soups and stews, freshly baked bread, or warm pies embody the essence of cozy living. As I’ve mentioned before, I’m a huge fan of the Half Baked Harvest blog, and I love Tieghan’s cookbook Half Baked Harvest Super Simple. If cooking is not really your thing but you’d like to learn new skills, meal kit services like the Martha Stewart approved Marley Spoon are great for trying new techniques and recipes in an easy to follow format. Create rituals around meals by using your favorite dishes and tableware to turn every meal into an event, even if it’s just for you.

Step 5: Unplug

Prioritizing rest and quiet time is essential for a cozy life. Limit your screen time in the evenings, and instead spend time reading a good book, journaling, or working on a hobby.

Step 6: Treat Yourself with Love and Grace

A cozy life isn’t just about your surroundings; it’s about how you treat yourself. Prioritize self-care. Regularly take time to pamper yourself—whether it’s a spa day at home, a leisurely walk, or simply saying no to obligations that drain you.

A cozy life is about so much more than aesthetics—it’s a mindset. It’s about intentionally slowing down, finding joy in simple pleasures, and creating a life that feels as good as it looks. So, light that candle, wrap yourself in your favorite blanket, and reign supreme in the kingdom of comfort. You deserve it.

What are your favorite cozy rituals? Share them in the comments below.

Xo,

Courtney