The Real Chic Life

We’ve been talking about being chic for as long as I can remember, but the other day, Courtney sent me a cute podcast where a young woman was sharing her picks for the perfect things that make you incredibly chic. It was a pretty comprehensive list that spanned the gamut from flowers in a pitcher to being kind to waiters. I’m going to assume that our readers are already polite to waitstaff and are not afraid to buy themselves flowers—but it made me think about creating a short list here, too.

Chicness isn’t about designer labels or high-end trends—it’s a quiet confidence and refined sense of style that shines through in the small things. Effortless style is all in the details. And a chic life is a cared-for life. So, whether you’re heading to work, lounging at home, or stepping out for coffee, here are 10 simple ways to add a touch of chic to your everyday life.

1. Start with a Signature Scent

A beautiful fragrance lingers in the memory. Find a perfume that makes you feel elegant and put-together, and wear it like a second skin. I recently switched my signature scent to a new one, and I look forward to spritzing it each day. 

2. Add Sunglasses 

A sleek pair of sunglasses instantly elevates any look. Choose a shape that flatters your face and makes you feel like your most confident self.

3. Keep Nails Clean and Polished

Whether it’s a nude gloss or a bold red, well-groomed nails speak volumes. Minimal effort, maximum impact.

4. Invest in Structured Bags

Swap slouchy totes for structured handbags. They add polish to casual outfits and instantly make you look more intentional.

5. Wear a Silk Scarf

Tied around your neck, your hair, or your bag—silk scarves are the ultimate French-girl chic touch.

6. Stick to a Neutral Color Palette

Black, white, beige, camel—these timeless hues exude sophistication and pair seamlessly with everything. You can always add pops of color (see our post here).

7. Keep Jewelry Delicate and Thoughtful

A simple gold necklace, tiny hoops, or a minimalist ring stack can subtly elevate your style without shouting for attention.

8. Sip from a Beautiful Mug or Water Bottle

Small rituals can feel chic, too. Choose drinkware that feels like an extension of your aesthetic.

9. Walk with Good Posture

Chicness is as much about how you carry yourself as what you wear. Shoulders back, chin up—confidence is the best accessory.

10. Be gracious 

When you see something beautiful, don’t be afraid to offer a compliment and remember to say please and thank you. Having good manners is incredibly chic!

Chic isn’t about perfection—it’s about intention. When you choose beauty in the little things, elegance becomes your everyday. We’d love to hear how you make your days a little more chic, too. Let us know in the comments. 

Until Next Post, 

Xo Tonya Parker